Far Apart From You

Buddy: Yeah....it's hard...
Me: I know....
Buddy: Both of us have tried our best....we tried hard...
Me: Yeah...
Buddy: When you found that you can't give what she want, then, it's time to let her go....
Me: Haizzzz...i am trying very hard.....

He defeated. He unable to give what she want. When there is a better guy by her side, he need to let her go.

YA....it is long distance relationship. Don't even know how we eventually drop into this topics. His wound still there. The blood oozing when you touch it because, it never healed. He don't even know how to advice on me. I know it was a hardship for them.

When we met he/ she, we fall in love. You never knew, he/she will be the one. The one that make your heart pounding hard,the one that stimulated your adrenaline when he/she hold your hand, the one that make you smile when you asleep.We never knew until we meet him/her. We want to share everything with him/her.He or she will become the core of your life. Every single of his/her motion will grab your attention.Some times, little things that he/she did can rise your temper..little did we know, this is actually LOVE.

However, different couples have different situations of relationship. And, we handle it in different ways. When he/she far apart from you,then, you need more patience and endurance to handle it.You need to be clear that, you only able to meet up once or twice in few months.He/she will not be there when you need an embrace or a shoulder. He/ she can't even know how happy you are even though you have telling them in words. You need to smile when you see your best friends are busying with their dates, because you most probably have a date once in three months. You can't even bear to see all those happy couples hanging out together in mall, dating besides fountains. You will feel hardly to control your tears when today is a special day for both of you. And and, all those kissing scene in movie is just digging a hole in your heart, make you hardly to breathe. Eventually, you will start to ask yourself....why should i endure such agony? I deserve happiness!!!Most of the couples will start to feel upset and quarrel frequently. As a result, they will just give up. There is also some couples who struggling hard. And some will just happen as what had happened on my buddy. Boy felt helpless, he can't even give she want, he can't by her side when she sad, he can't accompany her most of the time.....therefore, he HAS to let her to go. She deserve a better one.So...what do you think? I do hope i can get through all those predicament with him. YA....i hope!! And, we will work hard for it.

This is just a little sharing of mine. Some times, i do hope that....Love and Happiness is contagious.It spread to everyone. And,love will give us the strength to endure with some unexpected-spoiling-situation.=)